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king Your Relationship Pattern, Part 3
Do you want to put to rest the people and situations from your past so they do not interfere with your current and future relationships? I bet you said yes. Who doesn't have something in their past they want to put to rest? Then let's talk about what action steps you can take to create the absence of past -- or completion -- in your life. Below are a series of action steps. You'll want to pick a few and repeat them until you are complete with various people and circumstances from your past. The time it takes to get to genuine completion will vary from person to person and situation to situation. For some it can come quickly. But sometimes completion happens over time: we may have to forgive, let go, or communicate to people in stages over a period of time. Here are 10 action steps to put to rest the people and situations from your past. Use these action steps on the list of incompletions you created from last week's article. 1. Write Letters
2. Tell Your Story
3. Talk to the Right Person
4. Imagine Talking to the Right Person
5. Role Play
6. Reexamine
7. Own What Happened
8. Create Completion by Understanding
9. Repair the Damage or Loss
10. Talk to the Spirit of the Person
These steps will help you put your past to rest. You will be ready to start working on attracting your ideal Mr. or Ms. Right -- figuring out and then breaking your relationship pattern. Your Relationship Coach, About The Author Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit http://www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)!"
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